Monday, November 9, 2009

Writing, and Procrastinating Writing

November is already flying by for me as I work hard each day to do all the usual stuff, prepare for the holidays, and write my novel, too. So far, I'm right on track and if I keep up this pace, I'll be a 30 day novelist!

My story this time has become very emotionally-taxing for me to write; this is so unexpected! It has elements of a family's generational differences, and the changing attitudes about that family's ethnicity across those generations; then, those elements swirl around a poignant coming-of-age experience that is at the center of the story. There have been times over the last 9 days that I've felt like putting the novel aside altogether, because it touches something tender in me and causes such pain. But of course I recognize that stories like that, the ones you write in blood, are the ones most worth telling...so I carry on.

On Saturday I took six hours and went to an all day crop hosted by my Close to Your Heart scrapbooking consultant. Here I am beginning my huge project of scrapping the family photos I've scanned so far. (That's my buddy who came along, too, on the right.)

It will take me years to finish this project. But it's wonderful to have begun! I'll take pictures and show you some of the layouts I did another time.

Then, I spent some time this morning photographing fabulous funky vintage finds for my Etsy shop:

Do you remember when I blogged about that lovely covered glass dish that I used to display a bird's nest? Well, I was so surprised to find this one at the thrift store; I think I might even like it better because of the ornate metal fob on top!

Would you look at this little shabby bunny?

He's worked into this baby blanket which is vintage Pepperell -- I know this will make some little someone (or their mom or grandma) very happy! I love the peachy pinks in it -- they are so '50's!

I didn't need this, but I loved the colors on this scale and it is in such good condition!

I also picked up this grab bag of cake decorations.

I think maybe my favorite thing about them is the label, but these little flags are cool.

I love this little pink elephant that comes with 3 champagne bottles...

And these solemn wedding attendants; the girls seem to be sighing, "Always the bridesmaid, never the bride."

I just got a phone call from that sister of my friend whose mother's house I helped clean out for them; she had offered me a wonderful antique desk that I turned down for lack of space and have regretted ever since. This was a call to say, "Are you sure you don't want it?" What do you think I said this time? ;)

Now, I must go and finish the last 100 pages or so of a book I've been reading; it's overdue but I can't renew it because there's a waiting list! It's going back to the library tomorrow!

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Etsy Blogger Blog Carnival!








Welcome to the November 9th edition of the EtsyBloggers
blog carnival!





Heather presents Surviving the Holidays posted at Heather's Custom Sewing.





Sumiko Shop presents is just the beginning ... posted at Sumiko*Handmade Creations*.





Laurie Jackson presents Christmas in My Etsy Shops posted at Indulge Your Shelf.





Two Zany Zebras presents Monster Mania! posted at Two Zany Zebras.





Jannifer Long presents My Dream Show posted at EtsyBloggers Carnival Theme = irony posted at Punky Jane.





Erika presents Examining Sales posted at NICO* Designs.





Melissa Sinisgalli presents A Pat on the Back! posted at Made By Melissa.





storybeader presents Etsybloggers Carnival - November 6, 2009 posted at Stroll Through Storyland.



Thank you to the above teammates who participated in this edition.


 



Thursday, November 5, 2009

Christmas in My Etsy Shops

NaNoWriMo update: it's Day 5 and I'm on track (and a smidge over) with 8452 words.

I've put a few more Christmas items in my Etsy shop, Twice Shy Restored:

This little snowman trio;

Baby Jesus candy cane ornaments;

and, salt shaker snow scenes.

In answer to the question, "What is your best advice for juggling the holidays, your business, and family commitments", I'd have to say, START EARLY.

Everyone's different. Some people thrive on doing things at the last minute. I'm not one of those people. I am a listmaker. I'm an organizer. Nothing stresses me out more than having to rush to meet a deadline. So, when it comes to my business, I'll start planning for the holidays well ahead of time -- at least by July. By then I know if I'm doing any shows or have any products I'm reproducing in quantity. By August I've bought supplies. By September I'm in production. By the end of October, I'm finished with major preparation and have a plan for implementation. I'm also in the thick of saying "no" to anything extra and setting boundaries with other commitments in my life. That's the only way I know how to do it. That way, the business doesn't impact my family life except for a few set days when I've asked my husband and sometimes even my son to chip in.

How about you?

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Why Would Anyone Want to Write a Novel in a Month?

I've had a few people ask me about my participation in National Novel Writing Month, which I wrote a little about here. Officially, the best place to get your questions answered is to read through the tongue-in-cheek FAQs on the official site.

Unofficially, as a five year veteran of NaNoWriMo, I have some thoughts of my own to share with you.

One question I always get is, "Can you really write a whole novel in a month?" The unspoken part of that question is, "And if you can, how good could it possibly be?" Well, here's the thing: the beauty of NaNoWriMo is that it gives every writer, and every wannabe writer, a way to just start writing.

NaNoWriMo is a challenge. When you sign up on the website you are effectively putting a goal in writing -- and everyone knows how important it is to do that, and how much more successful people who write down their goals are than those who don't.

You "win" NaNoWriMo by meeting the goal to write 50,000 words in one 30 day period. If within those 50k words your story has a beginning, middle, and end then it is, indeed, a complete novelette. Is it perfect, and ready for publication? No, it's a first draft.

In order to reach 50,000 in 30 days, you need to write 1667 words a day. That's about 3 typewritten pages. Looked at that way, it's not such a big scary goal, is it? The key is in the doing it for 30 days in a row.

I love Anne LaMott's book on writing, Bird by Bird. In one chapter, she describes an exercise where she started writing about her days in the schoolyard; she described the sights and sounds, and wrote about the games she liked and how it felt to be sprung from class and able to run around at recess. Then, in all that writing, pages and pages of it, she began to write about that kid who used to stand next to the fence and kick it; that boy who was always left standing when choosing teams. When her exercise was all said and done, the best thing about the pages of writing was that last bit about that little boy. But, all the rest wasn't wasted. It took all of that writing, you see, to find the little boy.

That's how I feel about doing NaNoWriMo. During my first year participating in 2002, I thought I had a great story. It was a story I'd wanted to write for years and years. It was based on something that I'd experienced in high school, a tragedy that happened within my circle of friends during one school year. (As an aside, I should mention that often the first story amateur novelists will write is semi-autobiographical -- it's sort of a rite of passage for writers!) Anyway -- I wrote the story and I found out at the end that it wasn't very exciting or interesting, after all. At least, not the way I wrote it in that first draft. It lacked some of the elements that make a story good, and I hadn't yet learned how to inject those in.

So, yes, I'd quickly written a novel, but it wasn't a very good one. But I'd gotten that nagging story out of my head, and "made room" to imagine something different. In that way, it was an invaluable experience.

I also learned that I could really handle the writing life. It was exhilarating, and fun, and satisfying to get the chance to sit down at the computer every day and face a blank page. It was where the rubber meets the road. Some wise writer once said, "Talking about writing isn't writing. Thinking about writing isn't writing. Neither are outlining, researching, or making notes. Only writing is writing." And not everyone can do it.

Something else happened, too: I'd often heard from published authors is that at some point in your writing, your characters might "take over" the plot and you'd begin to write things that weren't your idea -- they came from your characters. I thought those authors were kidding themselves, or me, or else that they were very out of touch with reality, or took themselves way too seriously, or all of the above. I was sure I'd never have an experience like that.

Well, you know what's coming next, don't you? When I was writing that first novel, there was a point where a group of my characters "decided" they wanted to take a road trip to go to a concert. It came out of nowhere, and wasn't part of my plot. I had the distinct sense that it wasn't my idea, it was theirs, and that there was nothing I could do to stop it except to go along for the ride and write it down. I. Am. Not. Kidding. It was the most incredible experience! It was pure creative joy.

During my second year of NaNoWriMo I wrote a story that was completely fiction. It started out being the story of a woman and her mother. But very early into the novel it became obvious that the antagonist, a guy, "wanted" to be the main character. And about a week into the writing, the focus of the novel changed from the woman to the guy, and the story was so improved. Not only that, it was crazy interesting getting to know that male character in depth. Again: pure creative joy!

The other thing that happened as a result of doing NaNoWriMo is that I trained myself to sit and write everyday. That first year I finished my novel early, had nothing left to write, and really missed it! So, I looked around for writing projects and found one in a magazine I received which was having a writing contest. I sat down the next day and wrote a short story for the contest. I finished it literally in about an hour. I edited it, sent it off, and darn if I didn't win! It was published a few months later, and became my first "clipping" for my portfolio.

I never would have entered, much less won, that contest had I not just finished NaNoWriMo. My writing muscles were bulging. I was in "the zone." Here's that story; if you click on the photo it should become big enough for you to read it.


Why would anyone want to write a novel in a month? Maybe I need to write 50,000 words to find the few thousand that really matter. Or, tell one of the stories inside of me and listen for the voice that most needs to be heard. Or, perhaps I just need to get into that "writing zone" and get my writing muscles back into shape.

It's day 3 of NaNoWriMo and so far I'm on track with just over 5k words.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Next Week's Blog Carnival!

Friends, a week from today on Monday I'll be hostessing the Etsy Bloggers Street Team Blog Carnival! That means that I'll be posting links to the blogs of other Team members who have written about one of two topics I suggested:

1) What was your most successful sales event or product, and why do you think it was?
2) Give us your best hints or advice for juggling the holidays, your business, and your family commitments.

If you're interested, you can click on the first little box below to see our archives of previous Blog Carnivals.

The second box below is for Etsy Street Team Bloggers to use to easily submit their links.




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Happy Monday! Is anyone else feeling that full moon as much as me? Sheesh!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

All Hallow's Eve

It's Halloween and I've had a lovely Saturday so far; the sun is already low in the sky and soon the littlest trick or treaters will be here! I'm looking forward to greeting all the little ghosts and goblins, but sort of sad that my own son won't be among them. Since last year when he was 11, he's decided he's TOO OLD to go trick or treating.

I'm reminiscing about his costume 2 years ago, which was a great idea of his friend Nicholas from something he'd seen on YouTube. Nick's mom and I brainstormed and came up with a way to attach light sticks to sweat pants. It's tricky because you can't snap the sticks and make them glow until you're just ready to use them!

It was also real tricky figuring out how to get the heads to work.

The results in the dark were SPOOKtacular!

Oh man, I miss those days already!

Since I'm doing NaNoWriMo, once again this year I associate Halloween as "the day before you get to start writing." Many writers begin their novels at 12:01 a.m. on November 1.

I don't.

I wish you all a fun-filled Halloween celebration -- and don't forget to "Fall Back!"

Friday, October 30, 2009

It's Phantom Friday!

As promised, I wanted to share my spooky ghost story with you on Phantom Friday.

It was late at night on a Fall evening in San Francisco, CA, about 25 years ago. I was visiting a friend who rented a room in an old neighborhood near Silver Avenue. I visited often, and had heard stories of strange happenings in the house. It seems there had been a suicide there, and previous renters reported drastic temperature changes and other abnormalities such as "a presence" in the ensuing years. But I wasn't afraid to visit, and had never noticed anything out of the ordinary. Until that night.

My friend and I were standing on opposite ends of the room, not looking at each other, but facing one another, when I heard a strange, long, loud whistle directly in my ear. The thing is, I not only heard the whistle, but I felt it as well -- I felt the air of the whistle on my skin.

I looked at my friend, but before I could react he said, "Did you just whistle?" I shook my head, "No." I didn't need to ask him if he had whistled, because I knew it couldn't have been him. He was standing on the other side of the room, and I had felt the whistler loud and clear right next to my ear. My friend then told me he'd heard the whistle loud and right next to his ear, too.

I felt very unsettled and I was in a big hurry to leave the room and the house. A few minutes later, we got into his car and my friend drove me home. We talked about the whistle a bit, and my friend was as disturbed as I was. Then, out of nowhere, we heard not just a short whistle, but several bars of a whistled song coming from the vicinity of the car's radio. My friend fiddled with the knobs, but he knew as well as I did that the radio wasn't on. We sat and listened to that strange, lone whistle, and then it stopped.

When we'd heard the whistler in his room, it was very frightening. But, the longer whistling in the car seemed ever more creepy. I really had the sense that the whistler was somehow teasing us -- not in a playful way, but in a mean way, as teasing can sometimes be.

I've told very few people that story. I am completely convinced the whistles were ghostly communications from beyond.

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Have a spooky Halloween!
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